The Marriage Education and Resource Center (MERCY’s) Lending Library
The Marriage Education and Resource Center (MERCY), has hundreds of books, audio tapes, DVD’s, magazines and pamphlets, about marriage, available to you. Please feel free to come in and visit. Some resources can be checked out; others may be viewed on site.
Please call ahead (502) 939-0121.
Because many resources have been borrowed and not returned, we have had to institute a new policy regarding lending material. Effective immediately, all materials available for check-out, will require a returnable deposit. Following is a list of the resources that are available.
Books Available Through The Marriage Education and Resource Center (MERCY)’S Lending Library
Author – Book
Abraham, Laurie – The Husbands and Wives Club
Akin, Daniel – God on Sex: The Creator’s Ideas About Love, Intimacy and Marriage
Alberti, Fischer – Rebuilding – When Your Relationship Ends
Allberry, Sam – God’s Signpost – How Marriage Points Us to God’s Love
Aldrich – Men Read Newspapers, Not Minds
Aldous, Joan – Family Careers – Rethinking the Developmental Perspective
Andrews & Andrews Husbands and Wives – The Best of Friends*
Arps – Dates for You and Your Mate
10 Dates for Mates
10 Great Dates for Empty Nesters (DVD)
10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage (DVD)
The Second Half of Marriage
Arterburn, Stephen – Every Heart Restored -A Wife’s Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband’s Sexual Sin
Every Man’s Battle
Every Man’s Marriage and workbook
Every Young Woman’s Battle
Every Woman’s Desire
Healing is a Choice
The 7 Minute Marriage Solution
Arthur, Kay – A Marriage Without Regret (2)
As Silver Refined – Learning to Embrace Life’s Disappointments
Arvin, Kay K. – 1 + 1 = How to Have a Successful and Happy Christian Marriage
Bach, George & Wyden, Peter-The Intimate Enemy
Bakers, Tom and Sandy – Marriage for Life
Ball, Ron – How to Have a Happy Home
Bartkowski – Remaking the Godly Marriage*
Baker – Value Your Mate*
Barbour – Crazy About My Wife
The Bible Promise Book
Barnes – Intimate Meditations for Couples
Banks, David – Draw Me Close
Beatte, Melody – Co-Dependent No More
The Language of Letting Go – Daily Meditations on Codependency
Bell, James – Christian Family Guide to Married Love
Bell, Rob-Sex God:Exploring the Endless Connection Between Sexuality and Spirituality
Bell, Steve & Valerie – Made to Be Loved
Bender – Recreating Marriagre With the Same Old Spouse
Bienefeld – Do It Yourself – Conflict Resolution for Couples*
Billheimer, Paul – Don’t Waste Your Sorrows
Blackburn – Caring in Times of Family Crisis
Briscoe, Jill – Women in the Life of Jesus
Block, Don & Anne – Sailing the Seven C’s of Marriage*
Blue, Ron – Master Your Money
Boone, Shirley & Pat-The Honeymoon is Over
BNA Communications – Choices – 3 VHS videos
Brandt, Henry – When You’re Tired of Treating the Symptoms. . .
Brazelton – Families: Crisis and Caring
Brister – Life Under Pressure
Dealing With Stress in Marriage – pamphlet*
Brookwood Church – CD’s: Communicating to Encourage Closeness
Connecting Through Shared Faith
God’s Plan for Marriage
Language of Love
The Big “D”
Brown, Steve – Overcoming Setbacks
Bruner and Stoope – It Starts at Home
Burkett – Financial Freedom
Making Ends Meet*
Burns & Whiteman – The Fresh Start Divorce Recovery Workbook
Butterworth, Bill-New Life After Divorce
Carder, Dave – Close Calls
Torn Asunder – Surviving Infidelity
Carlson, Dwight, M.D. – Overcoming Hurts and Anger
Chafin, Kenneth – Is There a Family in the House
Chambers, Mae/Erika – Can My Marriage Be Saved
Chapman, Gary – Desperate Marriages
One More Try
The Five Love Languages
The Five Love Languages of Apology
The Love Languages of God
Five Signs of a Loving Family
Hope for the Separated
101 Conversation Starters for Couples*
Loving Solutions – Overcoming Barriers in Your Marriage
Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
The Marriage You’ve Always Wanted
Toward a Growing Marriage*
You Get Me – Simple, Romantic Ways to speak the 5 Love Languages
When Sorry Isn’t Enough – Revised copy of The Five Love Languages of Apology
Chapman, Steve – Married Lovers – Married Friends
Annie – What Husbands and Wives Aren’t Telling Each Other
Carder, Henson – The Secret of Your Family Tree
Cherry, Debbie – Discovering the Treasure of Marriage*
J. T. Chick – The Marriage Mess
Clark, Chap – The Next Time I Fall in Love
Clarke, David Ph.D-I Don’t Love You Anymore
Clarke, David Ph.D – Top 10 Most Outrageous Couples of the Bible
Honey We Need to Talk
Clinton – The Marriage You Always Wanted*(2)
Before a Bad Goodbye
God Attachment: Why You Believe, Act and Feel the Way you Do About God
Cloud & Townsend – Boundaries – Face-to-Face
Boundaries – When to Say Yes/When to Say No
Boundaries In Marriage and Boundaries in Marriage Workbook
Cloud & Townsend-God Will Make a Way
Coleman – The Marriage Makeover
Colon, Jeff – From Ashes to Beauty
Congo,David & Janet – Lifemates
Conway, Jim & Sally – Your Marriage Can Survive a Mid-Life Crisis
Coughlin, Paul &Sandy – Married But Not Engaged
Courtney, Camerin & Hertz, Todd-The Un Guide to Dating
Crabb – Men and Women, Enjoying the Differences*
Bring Home the Joy – with additional authors – Kevin Leman, Parrotts, Gary Smalley, Roger Tirabass and Neil Clark Warren
How to Become One With Your Mate
The Marriage Builder
Dr. Mark Crawford – Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: The Mind That Won’t Quit
Covey, Stephen – VHS:
First Things First (12 minutes)
The Seven Habits Video Illustrations:
I Know Just What You Mean
The Law of the Harvest (Reap What you Sow)
Survival/Revival (Taking a Break)
Mauritius (Strength in Diversity)
Stone (Principles)
Q 11 Firefighters (World Class)
Discovery of a Character (Transcending Problems)
A Pretty Close Second (Conflict)
Cross, Clay & Renee – I Surrendered All – Rebuilding a Marriage Broken by Porn
Crossman – Money and Your Marriage
Cruze, Rachel – Love Your Life Not Theirs – Money Habits for Living the Life You Want
Cunningham Ted – Challenging the Unnecessary Delay of Marriage
Curtis, Brent & John Eldredge – The Sacred Romance – Book and workbook
Cutler, William, M.D. – Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
Family Building, Fact, Fallacy and Faith
Embracing Intimacy in Marriage – DVD
Davis, Michelle-Weiner – Changing Her Man*
DeGance, J. P. -Endgame (with Dr. Van Epp)
Divorce Busting*
Divorce Remedy*
Sex-Starved Marriage
Dayton, Howard – Your Money Counts
Money and Marriage God’s Way
Deal, Ron – The Smart Stepfamily (dvd and book and participant’s guide)
Building a Successful Stepfamily
Building Smart Stepfamilies – How Churches Can Help (DVD)
Help for Stepfamilies – CD Focus on the Family
Preparing Couples with Children for Remarriage
Seven Steps to Stepfamily Success (DVD)
The Smart Stepdad
The Smart Stepmom
The Smart Stepfamilies: Issues, Trends and Intervention 2013
Decker – For Love and Money*
Dobson, James – Love for a Lifetime
Love Must Be Tough
Marriage Under Fire
Straight Talk to Men and Their Wives
What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Women
Doherty, William – Take Back Your Marriage
Downs, Tim & Joy – Fight Fair
One of Us Must Be Crazy and I’m Pretty Sure It’s You.
Downer, Phil & Suzy – Optimize Your Marriage*
Unlimited Partnership
Drescher – You Can Know it’s True Love pamphlet*
Dyer – The Language of Married Love*
Eggerich, Emerson – Love and Respect (Book and Workbook)
Eldredge, John – The Sacred Romance – Book and workbook – DVD series
Walking the Dead
Elliot, Elisabeth-What God Has Joined-Divorce The Children
Emswiler Sharon Neufer – The Ongoing Journey: Women and the Bible
Endrie, Paul and Patti – Glue
Engel & Gould – The Divorce Decisions Workbook
Eppinger, Paul & Sybil – Every Minister Needs a Lover (Just Be Sure It’s Your Spouse)
Ethridge – Every Woman’s Battle
Evan, Jimmy – The Blessed Marriage – DVD & audio
Strength-based Marriage
A Marriage Vision – DVD & audio
Blended Families – DVD & audio
Do You Want to Know God? – DVD & audio
Lifelong Love Affair
The Grace Solution – DVD & audio
Strength-based Marriage
When You Need a Miracle – DVD & audio
I Am Joseph – DVD
Evan, Karen – From Pain to Pleasure
Evan, Karen – From Pain to Paradise
Evans, Tony – Marriage Matters
Falwell, Jerry Dr. – The How To Book – God’s Principles for Mending Broken Lives
Farrar, Steve – Anchor Man
Farrels – Men are Like Waffles – Women are Like Spaghetti
Ferguson – Intimate Encounter
Feldhahn, Shaunti – For Women Only – The Inner Lives of Men
The Kindness Challenge
Fileta, Debra, Married Sex ( with Gary Thomas)
Finner-Williams, Paris & Williams, Robert – Single Wisdom
FIREPROOF Movie
FIREPROOF Couple’s Guide
FIREPROOF Guide 6-DVD Sessions, Leader’s Guide and Participant’s Guide
Focus on the Family – The Passionate Marriage
Focus on Marriage DVD-(Beth Moore,Gary Thomas, Gary Smalley, etc…)
Ford – When a Man Loves a Woman ( Pursuing Her Heart)
Frydenger – The Blended Family*
Fuller, Cheri – When Couples Pray
Gafni, Lillian – Living a Blissful Marriage
Gallagher, Kathy – When His Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart
Gallagher, Steve – A Biblical Guide to Counseling the Sexual Addict
Create in Me a Pure Heart
At The Alter of Sexual Idolatry
Gardner, Dr. Tim – 5 Keys to an Incredible Marriage
Garland, Diana – Covenant Marriage Workbook
Garrett – The Newlywed Handbook
Gaither Marriage – Questions Women Ask
George, Jim & Elizabeth – Powerful Promises for Every Couple
George, Rusty – After Amen
Girulli & Lanham – Pregnancy After a Loss
Glahn, Sandra – Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
Glass, Shirley – Not “Just” Friends
Godek, Gregory – 1001 Ways To Be Romantic*
1001 More Ways To Be Romantic
Gorman, Julie – What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage
Gorman, Greg and Julie – Two are Better Than One – God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
Gottman & Silver – The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work*
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail
Graham, Billy – Till Armageddon – A Perspective on Suffering
Graham, Ruth – In Every Pew Sits a Broken Heart – Hope for the Hurting
Gray, John Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus (book & audio)
Mars and Venus in Touch
Mars and Venus Starting Over
Gries -Sex 101
Griffin, Lib Uzzell – The Mirth and Misery of Marriage
Grissom, Steve & Cheryl – Divorce Care
Grollman – Talking About Divorce and Separation – with children
Hackett, Keith – Couples and the Art of Playing
Hall, Laura – An Affair of the Mind – Devastation of Pornography
Harbour, Hardin & Sloan – Getting Ready for Marriage Workbook
Harris, Patricia-Imprisoned by Secrets of the Heart
Harley, William – Fall in Love – Stay in Love
Love Busters
His Needs/Her Needs – Book and Audio & DVD
His Needs/Her Needs for Parents
I Promise
Preparing for Marriage That Will Last a Lifetime
Mom’s Needs/Dad’s Needs
Surviving an Affair
The One – A Field Guide to Relationships that Last
Harris, Josh – Boy Meets Girl – Say Hello to Courtship
Not Even a Hint – Guarding Your Heart Against Lust
Hart, Dr. Archibald – Evil, Sin and Suffering
Harvey, Donald – The Spiritually Intimate Marriage
Hawk – Family Enrichment in Your Church*
Hawkins – Money Talks*
Tarnished Rings*
Heald – Loving Your Husband
Loving Your Wife
Health Communication- Chicken Soup for the Couple’s Soul
Helm & Helm – Great Expectations – A Guide for Your First Years
Hendricks, Howard & Jeanne – Heaven Help the Home
Husband and Wives (A Compilation of Authors)
Hendricks, William – Rocking the Roles – Building a Win-Win Marriage
Hemfelt, Robert – Love is a Choice
Herring – Discovering God’s Purpose for Families pamphlet*
For This Cause – The Priorities of Marriage*
Hershey – Intimacy: The Longsigs of Every Human Heart*
Hester – Christian Sex Education*
Hocking, David & Carole – Romantic Lovers
Hollis Preventing Divorce – pamphlet*
Hudson, Penny – Coupletime Manual for Leaders and numerous articles
Hughes, Jim – C Through Marriage-Revitalizing Your Vows
Hunt, Gladys-Focus on Family Life
Hunt, June-Blended Family-God’s Recipe for Success
Keeping Your Cool When Your Anger is Hot
Hybells Marriage – Building Real Intimacy workbook*
Hunter, Frances-My Love Affair W/Charles
Ingram, Chip – Love, Sex and Lasting Relationships
Innes – How to Mend a Broken Heart
Jakes, Bishop, T.D. – The Good Samaritan
Jackson, Mark – Marriage Is God’s Plan – Responsibilities of Husbands and
Wives, Marriage & Divorce, How to Find a Wife – DVD’s
- Jeffress, Robert
-When Forgiveness Doesn’t Make Sense
Jennings, Timothy – The Brain, God and Everyday Life
Jones, Thomas – When You’re Single Again
Johnson, Judith, Rev. – The Wedding Planner
Johnson, Sue – Created for Connection
Jenkins – Loving Your Marriage Enough to Protect It* (2)
Jordon, Farris – Bonded Together in Love-Singles Rebuild Relationships
Johnson, Dr. Sue – Hold Me Tight-Seven Conversations for a Lifetime
Jones,Thomas-Sex and Love-When Your Single Again
Jordon, Larry & Rebecca – Marriage Toners
Jordon, Stanley & Markhum – Becoming Parents*
Joy, Donald and Robbie – Two Become One – God’s Blueprint for Couples
Kaiser, Cecily – If You’re Angry and You Know It – Scholastic Book for Children
Keener, Craig – Paul, Women and Wives
Kellerman, Lois – Marriage From the Heart
Kelly, Matthews – The Seven Levels of Intimacy
Keirsey & Bates – Please Understand Me*
Kelsey, Allen – Strength-based Marriage
Kendall, R T. – Total Forgiveness
Kendrick – The Love Dare
A Year of Devotions for Couples*
Kennedy, James, Ph.D – Beginning Again
Kenworthy,George – Before the Last Resort
Keysor, Charles W.-Forgiveness Is a Two-Way Street
Killinger, John – Christ and the Seasons of Marriage
Kington, Kenn – Rediscovering Super Husband and Wonder Wife
Kesler – Is Your Marriage Really Worth Fighting For
Kellerman, Grace Verbal Abuse – Healing the Hidden Wound
Kindig – Goodbye Prince Charming
Kohn & Moffitt – A Silent Sorrow – Pregnancy Loss
Kraftsky, Jason – Facebook and Your Marriage
Krantzler – The Seven Marriages of Your Marriage
Laaser, Deb – Sexual Brokeness and Infidelity
Ladies Home Journal-Editors Can This Marriage Be Saved?*
Lafoon, Jay and Laura – He Said / She Said
LaHaye – Opposites Attract-Bringing Out the Best in Your Spouse
What Love Making Means to a Woman
The Act of Marriage
Landrum, Nancy – How to Stay Married and Love It
- Lane, Tim &
; Tripp Paul – Relationships: A Mess Worth Making
How People Change
Lanford, Jim – Remarriage and The Blended Family
Lanham, Tommy – Goals: Godly, Objectives, Assuring, Lasting, Significance
How to Speak to Weird People – Communication for Different Styles
Larson, Jeffrey – The Great Marriage Tune-Up Book
Lawrence & Lawrence – Your 30-Day Journey to Being a Great Wife
Leal III, Bento C. – Four Essential Keys to Effective Communication
Lee – A Scruffy Husband is a Happy Husband
Lee, Edward – Elevate Your Marriage*
Lee & Oliver – Trust Builders
Leman – Becoming a Couple of Promise
Living in a Stepfamily without Getting Stepped on
Sex Begins in the Kitchen
Lepper, John – When Crisis Come Home*
LeSourd, Leonard – Strong Men/Weak Men
Lester – Coping With Your Anger*
It Takes Two – The Joy of Intimate Marriage
Lewis, C. S. – Surprised by Joy
Lindsay, Homer Dr. – Sex and the American Home
Littaver, Fred & Florence – Daily Marriage Builders for Couples
Littleton – Submission is for Husbands Too
Love, Pat – Hot Monogamy*
Lush, Jean-Counseling for Stepparents (CD)
Lutzer – The Truth About Same-Sex Marriage
Lucado, Max – Number of Hope
Mace, David – Close Companions
Getting Ready for Marriage
Mahaney, C. J. – Sex, Romance and The Glory of God
Malz, Betty-Making Your Husband Feel Loved
Mark, Dr. – Sexual Brokeness and Infidelity
Markum, Stanley & Blumberg – Fighting for Your Marriage*
Marshall, Megan-The Cost of Loving
Marshall, Sharon – When a Friend Gets a Divorce
The Cost of Loving
Martin, Frank – Lifelong Love Affair
Matthews & Hubbard – Marriage Made in Eden*
May, Sharon Morris, Ph.D – Emotion Focused Therapy
Life, Love and Lasting Relationships
Mayo, Mary Ann – Caution:Sexual Choices May Be Hazardous. . .
MacDonald, Gordon – Magnificent Marriage
Ordering Your Private World
McElroy, Jeff & Debbie – Communication, Conflict Resolution and Intimacy – Videos
McGee & McGee – Celebrating Sex in Your Marriage*
McKain, Colleen & Chris-It’s His Show
McManus, Mike – Insuring Marriage – pamphlet*
Living Together – Myths, Risks an d Answers
Marriage Savers*
Matteson, Richard – What if I married the Wrong Person
McMinn, Gordon-Choosing to be Close
Means, Marsha – Living With Your Husband’s Secret Wars
Meier, Paul M.D. – Don’t Let Jerks Get the Best of You – Advice for Dealing with Difficult People
Messer, Judy- To Know Him Is To Love Him (She was a Christian – He wasn’t)
Meyer, Joyce – The Root of Rejection
Miller, Keith-Please love Me
Minirth, Frank & Paul – Love is a Choice
Mintle, Linda Ph.D – Fear and Anxiety – A Clinical Update
Mitchell, Brad and Heidi – Ruined to Recovery – Help when the affair is discovered
Moore, Beth-Get Out of that Pit
Moore, David – Love for a Lifetime audio tapes:
“Love for a Lifetime;” “He Said/She Said;”
“Why Women Are Wierd and Men a Mess;” “Anatomy of An Affair;”
“Rebuilding Your Relationship;”
“How to Keep the Fires Burning”; “His Needs, Her Needs, Our Needs”
Monroe, Myles – Single, Married, Separated,
Live After Divorce
Morgan, Kuykendall – Children Change a Marriage*
Morgan,Marabel – Total Guy*
Morgenstern, Michael – A Return to Romance
Morley – The Man in the Mirror
The Seasons of Crisis and Renewal
The Season of Suffering and Success
Neal, Connie – Holding onto Heaven, While Your Friend. . .
Munroe, Myles-Single, Married, Separated, Life After Divorce
Navigators-Husbands & Wives-God’s Design for the Family
Nelson, Tommy – Dream Team – The Power of Two
The Book of Romance
Song of Solomon
Newman – Then God Created Woman
Newman, Deena – Growing in Love ( Devotional)
Norwood, Robin-Women Who Love Too Much
Nowell, Glenn – Anger, Hurt and Resentment
Oglilvie, Lloyd – Making Stress Work for You
Olsen, David & Amy – Empowering Couples*
Olson, Ken – Real Men Do
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Economic Romance-30 Ways for Lovin’ on a Shoestring Budget
Turning Her on & Keeping Her Heart
Omartian, Stormie – The Power of a Praying Wife
The Power of a Praying Husband
Osterhaus – Questions Couples Ask Behind Closed Doors
Otto – Marriage and Family Enrichment*
Page, Palmer, Bethany, & Scott – When Talking is Not Enough
First Comes Love, Then Comes Money- (A Couples Guide to Financial Communication)
Parrotts – High-Maintenance Relationships
Love Is. . .Meditations for Couples on 1 Corinthians 13
Love Lists (Love Talk Starters)
Love Talk: Speak Each Other’s Language Like Never Before
Proverbs for Couples
I Love You More*
Questions Couples Ask (Trading Places book and workbook)
The Complete Guide to Marriage Mentoring*
The Control Freak – Coping with Those Around You. Taming the One Within
When Bad Things Happen to Good Marriages
Your Time- Starved Marriage
Paterson, Grenny, McMillan, Switzer – Crucial Conversations
Patton, Floss – Breaking the Anger Cycle
Pederson, Stephanie – KISS (Keep It Simple Series)-Guide to Planning Wedding
Penners – Gift of Sex
Restoring the Pleasure*
Sex 101
Perkins, Bill – When Good Men Are Tempted
Peterson – The Myth of the Greener Grass
Peterson, Allan – The Marriage Affair
Peterson, James – Why Don’t We Listen Better?
Petherbridge, Laura-When your Marriage Dies-Answers to Questions About Separation & Divorce
Phillips, Carolyn-Our Family Got a Stepparent
Piper, John-This Momentary Marriage
Powell – Holding Out for True Love
Rabey – The Snare-Under Emotional & Sex Entanglements
Raffel – Should I Stay or Go
Rainey, Dennis & Barbara – Stepping Up – A Call to Courageous Manhood
Building Your Mate’s Self-Esteem*
Moments Together for Couples*
Rekindling Romance
Lonely Husbands/Lonely Wives
Loneliness in Marriage (audio)
Building teamwork in Your Marriage
Building Up Your Spouse
Growing Together In Christ
Improving Communication
Mastering Money In Your Marriage
Managing Pressure in Your Marriage
Resolving Conflict in Your Marriage
Ramsey – Financial Peace*
Ramsey, Dave and Cruze, Rachel – Smart Money, Smart Kids
CD: Lesson 2 of 13 – Relating With Money
Money and Life
Reisser, Paul C. -Your Spouse Isn’t the Person You Married
Renfroe – Songs in the Key of Solomon
Rhode, Naomi – Marriage-A Celebration of Unity and Uniqueness(audio)
Rhodes, Brad and Marilyn – The Grace Marriage
Rodgers – Soul-Healing Love*
Rodriguez, Rev. Samuel – The Agenda of the Lamb
Roney, Carley – Guide to Wedding Vows & Traditions
Rosberg – Do It Yourself Relationship Mender
Divorce-Proof Your Marriage*
Rosenau, Dr. Douglas – A Celebration of Sex
Ross, Michael & Tiffany – The Little Book of Great Dates for Mates
Choosing to Love Again – Restoring Broken Relationships
Ross, James Robert – My Marriage Manual
Ruhnke, Ron – For Better and For Ever-Resource for Marriage Prep
Russell, Bob – Marriage by the Book
Go for the Gold (audio)
Salt, J.S. – How to Be the Almost Perfect Wife
How to Be the Almost Perfect Husband
Sanders, Oswald – Facing Loneliness – The Starting Point of a New Journey (2)
Sanford, John & Paula-Restoring The Christian Family
Schaumburg, Harry Dr. – False Intimacy-Understanding Struggle of Sex Addiction
Schlessinger, Laura Dr. – The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage
Schmitz, Building Love that Lasts
Sell, Charles & Virginia – Spiritual Intimacy for Couples
Serb, Ann Toland – Mother-in-Law
Shedd, Charlie – Letters to Karen (On Keeping Love in Marriage)
Sheehy, Gail – Passages
Sheridan, James – A Blessing for the Heart
Shook ,Kerry & Chris-Love at Last Sight-30 days to grow & deepen your closest relationships
Shultz, Justin – Affirming Your Spouse (tape from workshop)
Dr. Gary Sibey – Attacments: Unlocking the Secret to Loving and Lasting Relationships
Slattery, Julianna Dr. – Beyond the Masquerade – Unveiling the Authentic You
Smalley, Gary and/or Greg – DNA of Relationships
Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage*
For Better or Best – Understand Your Man
From Anger to Intimacy
How to Become Your Husband’s Best Friend
I Promise-How 5 Commitments Determine the Destiny of Your Marriage
If I Only Knew
If Only He Knew – What No Woman Can Resist
Joy that Lasts
Life, Love and Lasting Relationships
Love is a Decision
Loving Each Other for Better or Best
Making Love Last*
Making Love Last Forever
One Flame-How to Weather Five Winds in Marriage
The Joy of Committed Love
The Language of Love*
The Marriage You’ve Always Dreamed of
The Two Sides of Love
Your Marraige Can be a Honeymoon Again (audio)
Winning Your Wife Back Before It’s Too Late
Home Of Honor – VHS Series:
Keys To Reducing Conflict
Barriers To Intimacy
Destroying Intimacy
Changing Behaviors and Habits
Boundaries
Energize Your Mate
Divorce Proof Marriage
Sexual Intimacy
Stages of Life & Understanding Key Changes
Smith, Debra White – 101 Ways to Romance Your Marriage
Smith, Joshua – God Attachment: Why You Believe, Act and Feel the Way You do About God
Smith, Joyce Marie – Understanding Your Emotions
Smith, Tim – Learning to Live with the One you Love
Smoke – Growing Through Divorce
When Couples Pray Together
Snyder – Happily Married Opposites
Southerland, Mary – Hope in the Midst of Depression
Southern, Randy – 52 Uncommon Dates
Sortor, Toni – 365 Daily Devotions for Couples*
Stanchfield, Wilma-Struck by Lightning Then by Love
Stanley – Heart of Commitment
A Lasting Promise – Revised
Stanley, Andy – I Marriage (DVD and workbook)
Staying in Love – DVD and Participant’s Guide
When Work and Family Collide
Stanley, Trathen – Like a Tree Planted By The Water(Prep Prayer Journal)
Stanton, Glenn-My Crazy Imperfect Christian Family
Loving My (LGBT) Neighbor
McCain & Bryan – A Lasting Promise*
Stedman, Mike & Mary – Marriage on The Run
Stewart, Suzanne-Divorced
Stoop – The Intimacy Factor
When Couples Pray Together
Strach – Until You Say I Do
Strobel, Lee & Leslie – Surviving a Spiritual Mismatch
Straub, Dr. Josh and Christi – 10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage
Swihart, Judson-How Do Say, “I Love You”
Swindoll, Charles – Strike the Original Match
Secrets of Your Family Tree-Healing for Adult Children
Talley – Reconcilable Differences*
Life After Divorce
Life After Divorce-A Single Mother’s Guide
Tanner, Deborah – You Just Don’t Understand-Women/Men in Conversation
Thatcher, Floyd & Harriett – Long-term Marriage – A Search for the Ingredients of a Lifetime Partnership
Thoele, Sue Patton – Heart-Centered Marriage
Thomas, Angela-My Single Mom Life
Thomas, Gary – Married Sex (with Debra Fileta, MA, LPC
Sacred Marriage
Cherish – DVD and Book
Tomczak, Larry-Straight forward-Why wait till Marriage?
Tournier, Paul – To Understand Each Other
Towns, Ruth & Elmer – Joined Together
Trent, John – Building a Great Marriage
Treat, Casey & Wendy Relationships – The Foundation of a Rich Life (video)
Tripp, Paul – What Did You Expect (dvd)
Relationships-a Mess Worth Making
Tripp, Paul & Lane, Timothy-How People Change
Turnball, Bob & Yvonne – Team Mates*
Van Epp, Dr. – Becoming Better Together
Van Epp, Dr. – How to Avoid Falling for a Jerk(ette)
Van Epp, Dr. – Endgame (with DeGance)
Vander Klok, Duane-Get the Junk out of Your Trunk
Vernick, Leslie-How to Live Right When Your Life Goes Wrong
Vernick, Leslie – The Emotionally Destructive Relationship – Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It
Wagner – Strategies for a Successful Marriage – Men
Walterstein – Second Chances
Warner, Marcus and Coursey, Chris – The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriage
Warren – The Triumphant Marriage
The Purpose Driven Life
Warrener’s, Diane – The Complete Book of Wedding Vows
Weiner- Davis – Michele – Divorce Busting* – see under Davis
Weiss, Douglass – Intimacy – A 100 Day Guide to Lasting Relationships
Wheat, Ed – Love Life for Every Married Couple*
Intended for Pleasure
The First Years of Forever (book on tape)
White, Debra – 101 Ways to Romance Your Marriage
Wilke-Jackson – When We Can’t Talk Anymore
Williams, Joe & Michelle – Yes, Your Marriage Can be Saved
Williams, Mike – Men Moved to Mars When Women Started Killing the Ones on Venus*
Williams, Pat & Jill – Rekindled
Restoring a Broken Marriage (audio)
Dr. Bruce Wilkerson – The Dream Giver
Wilson, Adams – Marriage Matters
Keeping the Holy in Matrimony
Winseman, Albert – Living Out of Your Strengths (book and wkbk)
Woodhouse, Collins & Blakeman – Divorce and Money
Wright, Norman – Before You Say ‘I Do:’ A Marriage Prep Manual for Couples
Making Peace with Your Partner
Up Close and Personal
Communication
Making Your Love Last Forever
Quiet Times for Couples*
The Complete Book of Wedding Vows
Wright & Oliver – How to Change Your Spouse Without Ruining. . .
Yagel – 15 Minutes to Build a Stronger Marriage
Yerkovich – How We Love
Young, Ed – Romancing the Home
The 10 Commandments of Marriage
Zacharias, Rave – I, Isaac, Take Thee Rebekah
Zigarelli, Michael – Freedom from Busyness – DVD
Zigler, Zig – Goals – Setting and Achieving
Keeping Romance in Your Marriage (audio)
Message of Hope (audio)
*From personal library
Additional Audio and Videos Available for Check-Out
Audio
Adrian Bickley – Blended Families (tape)
BNA Communications – Choices – 3 VHS videos
Brecheen & Paul – Marriage Enrichment (tapes)
Covey, Stephen – VHS: First Things First ( 12 minutes)
The Seven Habits Video Illustrations:
“I Know Just What You Mean” (Listening – 11 minutes)
“The Law of the Harvest” (Reap What You Sow – 6 minutes)
“Survival/Revival” (Taking a Break – 6 minutes)
“Mauritius” (Strength in Diversity – 20 minutes)
“Stone” (Principles – 7 Minutes)
“Q 11 Firefighters (World Class – 6 minutes)
“Discovery of a Character” (Transcending Problems – 12 minutes)
“A Pretty Close Second” (Conflict – 13 minutes)
Faulkner
Burns & Ruth Graham – Dealing With Your Family’s Heartbreak (CD)
Focus on the Family – Building Intimacy in Marriage (tape)
Reconcilable Marriages (tape)
Romance After Marriage (tape)
Gillogly, Harold & Bette – Connecting to the Power Source
Experiencing Sexual Intimacy (4 part tape)
Jackson, Mark – Marriage Is God’s Plan (CD’s)
John Gray Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus (CD and tape)
Men, Women and Relationships (tape)
Harley, Willard – His Needs/Her Needs (tape)
Lauer, Robert – How to Build a Happy Marriage (tape)
C. S. Lewis – The Four Loves (tape)
Rick Marks – Divine Order of Marriage (CD)
Forgiveness (CD)
Pittman, Frank – Teaching Men Marriage (tape)
Nelson, Tommy – Is God the Author of Sexuality? (tape)
Real, Terrence- How Can I Get Through to You? (tape)
Russell, Bob – Go for the Gold – Keys to Making Marriage Last:
Realistic Expectations (tape)
Honest Communication (tape)
Practice Reconcilation
Smalley, Gary – Your Marriage Can Be a Honeymoon Again (tape)
Smalley, Michael & Amy – Seven Powerful Discoveries to Strengthen Any Marriage (CD’s)
Smalley, Michael & Amy – The Secret to Sexual Intimacy
Stanley, Andy – I Marrige
Staying in Love – DVD and Participant’s Guide
Stosny, Dennis – Power of Love (CD)
Trent, Casey & Wendy – Relationships – The Foundation to a Rich Life (tape)
Wheat, Ed – The First Five Years of Forever (tape)
Williams, Pat & wife – Restoring a Broken Marriage (tapes)
Videos Available for Check-out
FIREPROOF 6-DVD Sessions, Leader’s Guide and Participant’s Guide (DVD)
Focus on the Family – Viva La Difference (VHS)
Gray, John – Women are From Mars/Women From Venus Series: (tapes)
The Secret of Passion
Giving and Receiving Love – Emotional Needs
Lasting Intimacy and Fulfillment
Improving Communication
Understanding Martians and Venusians
McElroy, Jeff & Debbie – Communication (VHS)
Intimacy (VHS)
Your Differences – God’s Design (VHS)
Conflict Resolution (DVD)
Husband & Wives – The Best of Friends (VHS)
Smalley, Gary – Hidden Keys to a Loving Relationship – Various Topics (VHS)
Making Love Last Forever (VHS)
Zigarelli, Michael – Freedom from Busyness – DVD
Testimony on Retrouvaille
Promotional Tapes to Weekend to Remember and Fall Festival
The Marriage Education and Resource Center (MERCY) has addtional audios and videos available for viewing at the center; however, they cannot be checked out. We have tapes from many professional authors on the design of marriage, communication and conflict resolution skills, preparing for marriage, enriching marriage, dealing with challenges in marriage, boundaries and intervention. We also have a series on healthy sexuality in marriage. Please call , or e-mail us, if you are interested in a specific topic.
MERCY also offers referrals to marriage and family counselors/therapists, pastoral counselors so please let us know if we can help.